{"id":14750,"date":"2026-01-02T16:33:57","date_gmt":"2026-01-02T16:33:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/?p=14750"},"modified":"2026-01-02T16:56:09","modified_gmt":"2026-01-02T16:56:09","slug":"is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/","title":{"rendered":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ask the Rabbi with Rabbi Chaim Mintz<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">My family\u00a0has a\u00a0tradition to commemorate <em>yahrtzeits<\/em> (<em>nachalot<\/em>&#8211; anniversaries of death)\u00a0with a <em>seudah<\/em> (meal) at a restaurant, together with friends. But it\u00a0has become\u00a0very expensive, causing tension with my wife, who\u00a0wants to stop. At the same time,\u00a0I\u2019m\u00a0concerned that stopping would be disrespectful to my parents\u2019 memory. What should I do?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Rabbi Chaim Mintz responds<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Shalom Bayit Comes First<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In this&nbsp;situation, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/jewish-marriage-according-to-the-torah\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>shalom&nbsp;bayit<\/em> (family peace)<\/a><em> <\/em>takes priority. There are far more meaningful ways to honor and elevate your parents\u2019 souls, ones&nbsp;that&nbsp;don\u2019t&nbsp;involve costly restaurant meals.&nbsp;You can learn Torah and do <em>mitzvot<\/em>&nbsp;in their merit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/the-first-7-days-a-shiva-guide-for-mourners-and-comforters\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">say <em>Kaddish<\/em><\/a> in shul, and light a <em>yahrtzeit <\/em>candle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Original Meaning of a Nachalah Observance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, your family\u2019s custom of&nbsp;hosting&nbsp;a meal may&nbsp;itself&nbsp;have its origins&nbsp;in&nbsp;Torah study.&nbsp;Today, in many <em>shuls<\/em> (synagogues),&nbsp;people&nbsp;mark a <em>yahrtzeit<\/em>&nbsp;by serving cake and whiskey&nbsp;after davening.&nbsp;Historically&nbsp;however, the&nbsp;earliest&nbsp;known&nbsp;custom&nbsp;observed&nbsp;on a <em>yahrtzeit<\/em>&nbsp;was actually fasting&nbsp;(see <em>Rema,&nbsp;Yoreh&nbsp;Deah<\/em>&nbsp;402:12). The day of passing is&nbsp;considered a&nbsp;time of judgment for the <em>neshamah<\/em>, and any <em>mitzvot<\/em>&nbsp;or&nbsp;Torah study&nbsp;performed by the children on that day serve as a merit for the deceased. It is also seen as a day of&nbsp;bad <em>mazal<\/em> (loosely &#8211; luck)&nbsp;for the family,&nbsp;a time that calls for&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/why-is-complete-repentance-sometimes-not-enough-for-atonement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">fasting<\/a> and <em>teshuvah. <\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">From Fasting to Feasting: How the Custom Changed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So how did&nbsp;we&nbsp;go&nbsp;from fasting to&nbsp;cake and whiskey?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky&nbsp;once&nbsp;explained&nbsp;how this shift&nbsp;likely&nbsp;took&nbsp;place. We find a precedent in the case of <em>Ta\u2019anit&nbsp;Bechorot<\/em>\u2014the fast of the firstborn on <em>Erev Pesach<\/em> (Passover Eve). There, a widespread <em>minhag<\/em>&nbsp;developed to&nbsp;have someone&nbsp;make a <em>siyum<\/em>,&nbsp;followed by a<em>&nbsp;seudat&nbsp;mitzvah <\/em>(meal celebration the fulfillment of a mitzvah) that exempts participants from fasting&nbsp;(see <em>Mishnah&nbsp;Berurah<\/em>&nbsp;470:10).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A similar pattern developed with <em>yahrtzeits<\/em>. Originally, people fasted,&nbsp;but as fasting became more difficult, it was replaced by a <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/a-siyum-on-tehillim\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">siyum<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;and <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/chanukah-customs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">seudat&nbsp;mitzvah<\/a><\/em>. Eventually, however, the <em>siyum<\/em>&nbsp;was forgotten, and all that remained was the food\u2014cake&nbsp;and whiskey&nbsp;in many <em>shuls<\/em>, or in your case, a meal in a restaurant.&nbsp;So&nbsp;in truth, spending time learning Torah would be&nbsp;far&nbsp;more faithful to your family\u2019s original custom than going out to eat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do We Need Extra Brachot?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Some&nbsp;contend&nbsp;that&nbsp;serving&nbsp;food&nbsp;on a <em>yahrtzeit<\/em>&nbsp;is important because it generates <em>brachot<\/em> (blessings),&nbsp;resulting in extra&nbsp;merit for the deceased.&nbsp;But it is unnecessary to go out of our way to create&nbsp;extra <em>brachot<\/em>.&nbsp;Once,&nbsp;when we were set to recite <em>Birchat&nbsp;Hachamah<\/em>\u2014the <em>bracha<\/em>&nbsp;recited&nbsp;once every 28 years when one sees the sun return to its original position&nbsp;of Creation\u2014the&nbsp;sky&nbsp;in Baltimore, where I was in&nbsp;yeshivah (Talmudical school)&nbsp;at the time,&nbsp;was&nbsp;overcast.&nbsp;Some people, determined to make the <em>brachah<\/em>,&nbsp;booked a flight&nbsp;to&nbsp;fly&nbsp;above the clouds and catch a glimpse of the sun.&nbsp;Upon hearing this,&nbsp;my <em>rebbi<\/em>,&nbsp;Rabbi&nbsp;Dovid&nbsp;Kronglas,&nbsp;responded,&nbsp;\u201cIf you&nbsp;wish&nbsp;to&nbsp;recite&nbsp;a <em>brachah<\/em>, go to the bathroom and when you come out say <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/feeling-connected-to-god-at-all-times\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Asher&nbsp;Yatzar<\/a><\/em> (blessing said after using the restroom).\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Everyday Blessings as a True Merit<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>His message was clear: we&nbsp;don\u2019t&nbsp;need to invent&nbsp;creative ways&nbsp;to accumulate blessings. Life&nbsp;provides&nbsp;plenty of natural opportunities. On a <em>nachalah<\/em>, every regular <em>brachah <\/em>you make\u2014on food, after using the bathroom, or during davening\u2014can be said with special intent, and that alone can serve as a tremendous merit for the <em>niftar<\/em> (deceased). You&nbsp;don\u2019t&nbsp;need&nbsp;elaborate meals&nbsp;to make blessings.&nbsp;All that money,&nbsp;whether spent renting a plane or on a restaurant,&nbsp;would be far better used for a <em>mitzvah<\/em>&nbsp;such as giving <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/levels-of-tzedakah-jewish-charity-giving\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tzedakah<\/a><\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Special Case: Nachalot of Great Tzaddikim<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There is&nbsp;one&nbsp;notable exception: <em>yahrtzeits<\/em>&nbsp;of great&nbsp;rabbis. We are not worried about their judgment\u2014we\u2019re&nbsp;confident they will pass&nbsp;with flying colors. On the contrary, their passing is&nbsp;an appropriate time&nbsp;to celebrate their lives and achievements. The <em>Midrash<\/em>&nbsp;(<a href=\"https:\/\/library.alhatorah.org\/?r1=Kohelet_Rabbah_7:1&amp;s1=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Kohelet&nbsp;Rabbah<\/em>&nbsp;7:1<\/a>) offers&nbsp;an&nbsp;analogy: when a ship sets out to sea, no one knows how it will fare, and it would be premature to celebrate. But when it returns safely to port, its mission&nbsp;complete, that is the time for rejoicing. So too, when a person is born, who knows how his life will turn out? But if he&nbsp;dies&nbsp;a <em>tzaddik<\/em> (righteous person), then we can truly celebrate his life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Bottom Line<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In short:&nbsp;Instead&nbsp;of&nbsp;an&nbsp;expensive meal,&nbsp;you should&nbsp;remember your&nbsp;parents&nbsp;and elevate their&nbsp;souls&nbsp;through the study of Torah,&nbsp;good deeds, and&nbsp;tzedakah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aligncenter tm-cta\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/sign-up.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learn more about yahrtzeits with a study partner. Sign up to TorahMates today!<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><em>Written by Rabbi Aaron Shapiro<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Have another question to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oorah.org\/asktherabbi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ask a rabbi<\/a>? You can ask Rabbi Mintz your own question by joining&nbsp;Ask the Rabbi Live on Tuesdays at 9PM ET. You can also submit your questions to&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:asktherabbi@oorah.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">asktherabbi@oorah.org<\/a>, or head to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oorah.org\/asktherabbi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">oorah.org\/asktherabbi\/<\/a> to watch the latest Q&amp;As.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask the Rabbi with Rabbi Chaim Mintz My family\u00a0has a\u00a0tradition to commemorate yahrtzeits (nachalot&#8211; anniversaries of death)\u00a0with a seudah (meal) at a restaurant, together with friends. But it\u00a0has become\u00a0very expensive, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14765,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[598,696,702,8,701,695],"tags":[252],"class_list":["post-14750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ask-the-rabbi","category-jewish-family","category-jewish-philosophy","category-judaism-101","category-mitzvot","category-torah-study","tag-ask-the-rabbi"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Jewish Resources\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/torahmates\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/shutterstock_2248905065.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1000\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"667\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"TorahMates\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@oorah\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@oorah\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"TorahMates\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"4 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"TorahMates\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/df1cd798c41777159e9fee85cb392ef9\"},\"headline\":\"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos)\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\"},\"wordCount\":1009,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization\"},\"keywords\":[\"ask the rabbi\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Ask the Rabbi\",\"Jewish Family Life\",\"Jewish Philosophy\",\"Judaism 101\",\"Mitzvot\",\"Torah Study\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\",\"name\":\"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00\",\"description\":\"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos)\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/\",\"name\":\"JEWISH RESOURCES by Oorah's TorahMates\",\"description\":\"brought to you by Oorah&#039;s TorahMates\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization\",\"name\":\"TorahMates\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/tm.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/tm.jpg\",\"width\":921,\"height\":824,\"caption\":\"TorahMates\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/torahmates\",\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/oorah\",\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/torahmates\/\",\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/oorah-inc?original_referer=https:\/\/www.oorah.org\/\",\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/oorah\/\",\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/OorahKR\",\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Oorah_(organization)\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/df1cd798c41777159e9fee85cb392ef9\",\"name\":\"TorahMates\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/26e85981eb7a7ffe0e513841f5d6b26a09f4f1ab01d3eff73b79b111f5b3a80c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/26e85981eb7a7ffe0e513841f5d6b26a09f4f1ab01d3eff73b79b111f5b3a80c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"TorahMates\"}}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources","description":"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources","og_description":"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/","og_site_name":"Jewish Resources","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/torahmates","article_published_time":"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00","article_modified_time":"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1000,"height":667,"url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/shutterstock_2248905065.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"TorahMates","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@oorah","twitter_site":"@oorah","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"TorahMates","Est. reading time":"4 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/"},"author":{"name":"TorahMates","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/df1cd798c41777159e9fee85cb392ef9"},"headline":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos)","datePublished":"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00","dateModified":"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/"},"wordCount":1009,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization"},"keywords":["ask the rabbi"],"articleSection":["Ask the Rabbi","Jewish Family Life","Jewish Philosophy","Judaism 101","Mitzvot","Torah Study"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/","url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/","name":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos) - Jewish Resources","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#website"},"datePublished":"2026-01-02T16:33:57+00:00","dateModified":"2026-01-02T16:56:09+00:00","description":"Is an expensive yahrtzeit meal necessary? Rabbi Chaim Mintz explains the origins of yahrtzeit customs and meaningful ways to honor a loved one\u2019s memory.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/is-a-yahrtzeit-meal-required\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Seudot Nachalah (Yahrtzeit Seudos)"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/","name":"JEWISH RESOURCES by Oorah's TorahMates","description":"brought to you by Oorah&#039;s TorahMates","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#organization","name":"TorahMates","url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/tm.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/tm.jpg","width":921,"height":824,"caption":"TorahMates"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/torahmates","https:\/\/twitter.com\/oorah","https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/torahmates\/","https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/oorah-inc?original_referer=https:\/\/www.oorah.org\/","https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/oorah\/","https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/OorahKR","https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Oorah_(organization)"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/df1cd798c41777159e9fee85cb392ef9","name":"TorahMates","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/26e85981eb7a7ffe0e513841f5d6b26a09f4f1ab01d3eff73b79b111f5b3a80c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/26e85981eb7a7ffe0e513841f5d6b26a09f4f1ab01d3eff73b79b111f5b3a80c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"TorahMates"}}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14750"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14750\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14771,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14750\/revisions\/14771"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14765"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}