{"id":3528,"date":"2025-12-26T16:08:06","date_gmt":"2025-12-26T16:08:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.oorahspirit.org\/?p=3528"},"modified":"2025-12-26T16:08:36","modified_gmt":"2025-12-26T16:08:36","slug":"to-be-like-them-or-not-to-be-like-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/to-be-like-them-or-not-to-be-like-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Parshat Vayigash: To Be Like &#8216;Them&#8217; or NOT To Be Like &#8216;Them&#8217;?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Exploring the reason behind our desire to fit in<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Yosef\u2019s Strategy in Presenting His Brothers to Pharaoh<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In this week&#8217;s Torah reading, <a href=\"https:\/\/torahmates.org\/jewish-resources\/?s=vayigash&amp;IREFERRER=direct&amp;LREFERRER=direct&amp;ILANDPAGE=https%253A%2F%2Ftorahmates.org%2Fjewish-resources%2F&amp;VISITS=382\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Parshas Vayigash<\/a>, the family of Yaakov (Jacob) moves to Egypt, where Yosef (Joseph) is the ruler, as instructed by the Almighty. Before Yosef introduces his brothers to Pharaoh, he instructs them to tell Pharaoh that they are shepherds by trade. Since the Egyptians worshipped livestock, they disdained people involved in this occupation, and would keep themselves distanced from them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition, Rashi says (Bereishit <a href=\"https:\/\/library.alhatorah.org\/?r1=Bereshit_47:2&amp;s1=1&amp;l1=he,en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">47:2<\/a>) that Yosef made sure to only bring his weaker brothers to Pharaoh, because he was afraid that if Pharaoh would meet the stronger ones he would conscript them to his military forces.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Avoiding Prestige Among the Nations<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Yeruchom_Levovitz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Rabbi Yerucham Levovitz<\/a> (in Da&#8217;at Torah) contrasts this approach with the attitude commonly found in our midst. We tend to view the concept of Jews attaining stature amongst the other nations as a positive accomplishment. We are proud to have Jewish politicians occupying government offices, and in general we seek the approval of the world at large. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet Yosef had the opposite agenda. He manipulated the meeting between Pharaoh and his brothers to offer the minimal chance of Pharaoh having any interest in the Jews. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Danger of Seeking Approval from the World<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the authentic Jewish mentality that we should try our best to adopt. The way a Jew ought not to be striving for world recognition. This doesn&#8217;t mean that we need to make ourselves into outcasts; respecting the other nations and forging positive relationships with them is certainly appropriate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To have an organized representation of our communities is also desirable. Nor is it a sin for a Jew to assume a position in a government office to serve the public. But actively seeking to gain their admiration and to &#8216;make it&#8217; to their ranks of prestige is not the way of the Jewish Nation. Deliberately seeking prominence amongst the gentiles poses a great danger to our values being compromised, for it leads us to become influenced by their way of life and draws us to conform to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Holding Firm to Jewish Values Despite Social Pressure<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>My wife&#8217;s great-grandmother was a public school teacher during an era when there was a great emphasis in America on conforming to society. One day, she learned that a married woman should cover her hair. She accepted the new teaching she learned and decided she was going to act accordingly, against the prevailing norm to remove hats indoors. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite the fact that she stuck out like a sore thumb, from then on, she determinedly wore a head covering, even while she taught in public school. Indeed, her new appearance did not go unnoticed, and the principal hurled a disapproving remark at her. Unfazed, she did not find it necessary to excuse or defend herself. Instead, she proudly retorted, &#8220;I think I look beautiful!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choosing Jewish Identity Over Social Acceptance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a life-long struggle which we all have to some extent. We are greatly outnumbered on this planet, and it is only natural that we should desire the approval of the rest of the world, as we are influenced by their opinion of us. This feeling can surface in the most unsuspecting venues. When we feel an urge to adopt a new trend that entered society, it is imperative that we conduct an investigation into the source of the new desire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If we are honest with ourselves, many times we will find, that deep down, the real reason why our interest has been piqued is because we want to be like the rest of the world. We want to be up-to-date with the culture surrounding us and we want to feel accepted into society. Subconsciously, we are scared of being looked down upon as backwards people who are odd or old fashioned and are not part of the establishment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Pride in Our Values, Not in Worldly Recognition<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When we talk about politics, we will often find that we are concerned about our status or prominence in the eyes of the rest of the world. We sometimes sense pride when we hear about a Jew who reached notable status amongst the ranks of society. But our goal should be to be proud of who we are, proud of our own values, and be disinterested in seeking out world admiration. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our mindset should be one that strives to be content without any fanfare from the world around us. This is the only way we can remain properly focused on our values; by keeping away from seeking prominent stature amongst the prevailing culture surrounding us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button tm-cta\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.torahmates.org\/sign-up.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learn more about the weekly Torah portion with a weekly study partner. Join TorahMates today!<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Parshat Vayigash by Rabbi Yitzchok Aryeh Strimber (torah4every1@gmail.com)<br><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Exploring the reason behind our desire to fit in Yosef\u2019s Strategy in Presenting His Brothers to Pharaoh In this week&#8217;s Torah reading, Parshas Vayigash, the family of Yaakov (Jacob) moves [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4868,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27,702,8,9],"tags":[13,45],"class_list":["post-3528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bereishis","category-jewish-philosophy","category-judaism-101","category-weekly-torah-portion","tag-articles","tag-parsha"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Parshat Vayigash: To Be Like &#039;Them&#039; 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