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Whenever things happen that inspire me or provide me with an interesting insight, I pull out my phone and jot them down. In the old days, people would carry a pencil and paper with them for when ideas hit, but in the modern age, it\u2019s easier for many to use a phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s funny, because when I was a kid in school, teachers would say things like, \u201cyou need to learn math because you won\u2019t always have a calculator with you!\u201d Well, times have changed, and we carry so much with us, all rolled into one little device. Might as well use them to the fullest, so I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be that as it may, I write my notes in a sort of shorthand. I don\u2019t need to recall all the details, just enough to transport me back to the place in my mind when I experienced the flash of inspiration. When I relive those moments, I can reexperience the inspiration and lesson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So here goes: one day I was going to the bank. The bank happens to be located in a strip mall next door to a very busy supermarket and, quite often, the spots are filled with people who are going shopping at places other than the bank. Well, one day, I saw a spot maybe five spaces away. That\u2019s pretty close, but then I saw a few motorcyclists who were parked in the second spot from the bank, and it looked like they were putting on their helmets and gear, getting ready to leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I waited for a few moments, then decided it wasn\u2019t worth the wait because they were chatting amongst themselves and didn\u2019t seem to be in a hurry to leave. I decided I would just back up and take the farther spot. However, as I put the car in reverse, suddenly the car in the closest spot, right in front of the bank and even closer than the bikers, pulled out, leaving the spot open for me! I quickly put my car into Drive and took the spot, with only one thought in my mind: Hashem (God) is in control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, I know some people think that something as mundane as a parking spot is beneath Hashem\u2019s paygrade, but I know He loves us and cares about us so much that He is intimately involved in every aspect of our lives. Indeed, the first of the “Ani Maamin<\/em>“s (13 Principles of Faith) is that our Creator, Blessed be He, is the One who directs and performs every action in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While it seems hard to imagine a boss doing everything in his company, that\u2019s because a human is limited but Hashem is not. He can run the entire cosmos and still care about whether your tooth aches when you bite into a piece of gum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had given up on getting a parking spot very close to the bank, and was about to go elsewhere. Hashem\u2019s response was, \u201cNot so fast! I\u2019ve got something better in mind.\u201d And I recognized at that moment, that despite all our understanding and reasoning, we don\u2019t see the big picture. We can imagine that we\u2019re smarter than everyone else in the room, and only we can see what needs to be done, but it isn\u2019t true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beyond Our Understanding<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You see, you might be the smartest man or woman in the room, but Hashem is also in the room. And His understanding and knowledge eclipse anything you can think of. When people sit and pontificate about what the politicians ought to be doing, or how we ought to be handling one situation or another, they are just engaging in the daydream of superiority which is somewhat misguided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I often joke that I\u2019m used to being wrong – I\u2019m married. But we should be used to being wrong because we\u2019re human, and time after time, things don\u2019t go the way we think they should, or the way we think they will. To be honest, most of the time, things work out better than we think they will, because Hashem\u2019s plans are always good. We may not see how they are good, or why they are good, but they are good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People will challenge this and ask, \u201cHow can the deaths of innocent children be good? How can the horrors that people do to each other be good?\u201d My answer is that you\u2019re asking the wrong person. There\u2019s no way I can answer that for you, because I\u2019m not Hashem and I don\u2019t have His knowledge, wisdom, or perspective. But this much I can tell you. When I think I\u2019m in the best possible situation, as good or as bad as it might be, Hashem can always surprise me with something I didn\u2019t see coming. He puts me in my place. Not the one I think I should have, but the one where I need to be. And that is all the answer I need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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